Monday, December 27.
“They're
not gonna say, ‘Hey mami, how are you?’” Pinet says of
Muslim men. “Usually they say, 'Hello, sister.' And they don't look
at you like a sex object.”
According
to the US daily, Pinet and others adopt a conservative lifestyle and
revert to Islam, unlike some Latinas her age, who try to emulate the
tight clothes and wiggling hips of stars like Jennifer Lopez and
Christina Aguilera.
At
this Union City, N.J., mosque, women account for more than half of the
Latino Muslims who attend services here.
Across
the United States, there are some 40,000 Latino Muslims, the daily
said, citing the Islamic Society of North America.
“Many
of the Latina converts say that their belief that women are treated
better in Islam was a significant factor in converting,” The
Christian Science Monitor said.
It
added that while critics may protest that wearing the veil marks a
woman as property, some Latina reverts say they welcome the fact that
they are no longer whistled at walking down a street.
“People
have an innate response that I'm a religious person, and they give
[me] more respect,” says Jenny Yanez, another Latina Muslim.
“You're not judged if you're in fashion or out of fashion.”
Other
Latina Muslims say they also like the religion's emphasis on fidelity
to one's spouse and family.
Misrepresentation
But
for many family members and friends, these conversions come as a
surprise - often an unwelcome one. They may know little of Islam other
than what they have heard of the Taliban and other extremist groups,
the Monitor added.
That
creates an inaccurate image, insists Leila Ahmed, a professor of
women's studies and religion at Harvard University.
“It
astounds me, the extent to which people think Afghanistan and the
Taliban represent women and Islam.”
“I
think the women here are asserting more their rights and their
privileges,” Zahid Bukhari, director of the American-Muslim Studies
Program at George- town University, told the paper.
Some
Latina Muslims say they harbored stereotypes about Muslim women before
deciding to revert, but changed their minds once becoming close
friends with a Muslim.
“I
always thought, geez, I feel sorry for women who have to wear those
veils,” says Pinet. Then she met her Muslim boyfriend and began
studying the Qur’an with a group of Muslim women. She says she was
impressed with the respect they received, according to the Monitor.
“A
women is respected because she is the mother, she takes care of the
children, and she's the one that enforces the rules,” Pinet says.
“They're the ones who are sacred.”
Patience
Latinos
account for six percent of the 20,000 Muslim reverts in the United
States each year, according to a report published by the Council on
American-Islamic Relations (CAIR).
Some
evidence suggests this number may be rising. But that doesn't mean
it's getting any easier for the women who make this choice, the Monitor
said.
“At
first it was anger and then more like sadness,” Nylka Vargas says of
her parents' reaction when she told them she was reverting to Islam
and began dressing more conservatively.
“They
would sometimes feel strange being around me.”
Pinet's
family has been more accepting, but she too has encountered some
resistance in her community. “It's as if you've betrayed your own
kind,” she says.
Cultural
Gap
For
some, the cultural differences are the most trying.
“I
can't eat pork, I can't wear [form- fitting] clothing, I can't dance
in the clubs, I'm not gonna attend church,” says Ms. Yanez, who is
of Cuban and Spanish descent.
“But
I keep my language, and there's still things that we do as Latinos
that they don't have to change.”
Critics
of the decisions of Latinas to convert to Islam say they are adopting
a religion just as “patriarchical” as the Roman Catholic faith
that many are leaving behind, the Monitor said.
“While
it's true the Latino culture tends to be more male-dominated, and
there's a tendency toward more machismo, I would venture to say it
exists [in Islam] as well,” claims Edwin Hernandez, director of the
Center for the Study of Latino Religion at the University of Notre
Dame.
Within
the Islamic community, Latina Muslims, according to the Monitor,
report being warmly received, although language barriers sometimes
exist for Latinas who only speak Spanish. There are few Spanish
services at mosques and a limited number of Islamic texts in Spanish.
“Grassroots
organizations specifically for Latino Muslims have been created in
recent years. They function in part as an informational resource for
new converts and but also as a support group for those who encounter
difficulties at home.”
Ultimately,
Latina Muslims say that time heals the divisions and angst their
conversion sometimes causes among friends and family.
“What
I had to learn was patience,” says Vargas, whose family came to
accept her religious beliefs after several years. “Sometimes things
are not as we want them.”
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